Isn’t being a human being great? I
mean, think about it – we’ve got opposable thumbs, which are
really good for answering the phone; we’re bipeds, so we
only have to buy one pair of shoes; and our cerebral cortex
comes in really handy for figuring out restaurant tips.
Furthermore, as Mark Twain once
quipped, “Man is the only animal that blushes. Or needs to.”
I wish Mark Twain had kept on
quipping. Yes, only we humans can feel shame, but we’re
also the only ones who could ever be justified in feeling
proud of ourselves, for only we can make moral choices.
That’s what makes us different from
animals. Fat dogs never willingly go on diets; grizzly
bears don’t try to find humane ways to decimate their prey;
and my cat, Clara, has never – not even once – done so much
as bring me a glass of water, even after the I’ve had the
most difficult of days.
Now, pet-owners, don’t start screaming
out the virtues of your Fido or Fifi – I’m sure your pets
are sweet. My point is this – our ability to do things such
as delay gratification, be kind to others, and behave with
courage – our ability to make moral choices – lies at the
heart of what it means to be human.
Moreover, when we are not moral – when
we are greedy, cruel, or cowardly – when we fail in any way
to live up to our human potential, we can improve. We
humans, you see, can fix ourselves. We can learn from our
failures and our shortcomings, getting better and better
each moment, if we’d like. To me, that human ability
beats opposable thumbs, any day.
The process of refashioning our selves
is called repentance or atonement in
religion-talk, and for Jews it is an important mandate,
particularly at this time of year. The Jewish year 5764
began Friday, September 26th night with the beginning of
Rosh Hashanah, our New Year celebration. Rosh Hashanah
kicks off a period on our calendar known as the Ten Days of
Repentance, which ends with Yom Kippur, our Day of
Atonement. During this time, we make an extra-special
effort to atone for our wrongdoings, to improve our faults,
to transform our human failings into human triumphs.
In Judaism, atonement is much more than
saying I’m sorry. Instead, it’s an often gut-wrenching
process that involves taking a good hard look at ourselves,
owning up to everything – everything – we’ve been
doing wrong, changing our behavior, only then
apologizing, compensating those we’ve wronged, and then
maintaining our changes over the long-haul. To say the very
least, atonement is pretty tough work.
The Hebrew word for atonement is
teshuvah, which literally means return. Atoning for our
failings helps us return to our better selves, return to our
full human potential and, yes, Judaism teaches that it helps
us return to God, too.
We’re supposed to do it all the time,
Judaism teaches, for the gates of repentance are always
open. But these days, they’re open really, really wide, and
God wants us to walk on through.
It’s as if God is beckoning us – “Hey
you – yeah you over trying to gorge your troubles away with
food; and you there, the guy saying all those nasty things
about other people; and, yeah, even you who fudged those
figures on your taxes last year – come on back over here.
Yes, I know, getting here is hard work – Twinkies, gossip,
and a few extra bucks in your pocket can be tempting – but
I’d really love for you to be over here with me.”
In Judaism, you see, you don’t have to
die to be with God, you just need to do a really good job of
living. And our ability to live our lives right is one of
the great perks that comes with being born a human being.